“Nervous system peace is the real green flag.”
Many of us mistake intensity for love. The butterflies. The chaos. The waiting-and-wondering dance.
But if your body feels unsafe, if your spirit feels unsure, it might not be passion — it might be pattern.
Aligned love regulates your nervous system. It calms your breath. It holds you with steadiness.
If you’re constantly anxious, it’s not alignment — it’s alertness. And love should never require you to stay in fight or flight.
Peace is not boring. It’s sacred. It’s the foundation of love that lasts.
Place a hand on your chest. Ask: 'Does this feel like love — or like anxiety?' Trust the answer.
Notice how your body responds to someone in your life. Track that wisdom. Let it guide you.
Jared E. “I chased adrenaline. But it never stayed. Now I date people who make my whole body feel safe. It’s not boring. It’s the first time I’ve felt held.”
Peace is the sign of aligned love.