“Stop waiting to arrive. You’re already whole in the middle.”
We wait for wholeness like a prize at the end of growth. Once I fix this. Once I heal that. Once they approve.
But here’s the truth: You’re not a future version of yourself. You’re here — now — and this version of you deserves love too.
Wholeness doesn’t wait for milestones. It includes every messy, beautiful, unsure moment along the way.
You are allowed to be enough in progress. In healing. In becoming.
Stop waiting to be worthy. You already are.
Sit with your hands open on your lap. Breathe deeply. Repeat silently: “Even here, I am whole.”
List five things you love or appreciate about who you are *right now.* Not later. Not ‘when I change.’ Now.
Ivy L. “I used to tell myself I’d be lovable ‘once I fixed my issues.’ But now I know — I’ve always been lovable, even when I didn’t see it.”
You are worthy — not someday, but today.