“Approval is addictive. Authenticity is freeing.”
There’s a subtle violence in people-pleasing. Not to others — to yourself.
Every time you betray what’s true to gain approval, you chip away at the foundation of your being. And that’s too steep a price.
The truth? Not everyone will understand you. Some may criticize. Others may leave. But the ones who remain — they’ll be standing with the real you.
And even more important: you’ll be standing with yourself.
Let your life be honest, not edited. Let your choices come from clarity, not fear. You weren’t born to be liked. You were born to be *you.*
And that is more than enough.
Breathe into your belly and say softly: “I give myself permission to be misunderstood.” Sit with the discomfort. Let it pass like a wave.
Say one honest thing today you would normally keep to yourself out of fear of disapproval.
Nina P. “I used to twist myself to be acceptable. But being liked isn’t the same as being safe — or being whole. I’m choosing wholeness now.”
Authenticity is worth more than applause.