“You were always enough. Their inability to see that changes nothing.”
One of the cruelest lies heartbreak tells is that you weren’t enough. That if you’d been more — more patient, more attractive, more forgiving — they would’ve stayed.
But love isn’t earned by shrinking. And being chosen is not proof of value.
You were enough even when they didn’t see it. You’re enough now. You’ll be enough tomorrow.
Healing starts when we stop trying to convince someone of our worth — and start remembering it ourselves.
Write this on a note and carry it: 'I was always enough. I still am.' Repeat it aloud once today when self-doubt arises.
List five qualities you love about yourself — unrelated to anyone else’s opinion or validation.
Jules W. “For years, I believed I was too much, not enough, too loud, too sensitive. Now I see: I was just right for me.”
You never needed to earn love by disappearing.