“Some chapters end without punctuation. You get to decide how the story goes on.”
We want a final conversation. A reason. An explanation that makes it all make sense.
But sometimes… closure never comes. People disappear. Relationships unravel. Pain lingers in unfinished sentences.
Waiting for the perfect ending keeps you trapped in the middle.
You don’t need their words to finish your healing.
You don’t need their presence to honor your growth.
*You are allowed to close the door yourself.*
Closure isn’t always about understanding. It’s about acceptance.
It’s about drawing the curtain when the story no longer serves your soul.
And yes — it may feel incomplete.
But peace doesn’t require perfection. Only permission.
So give yourself permission. To end the chapter. To turn the page. To begin again.
Sit with your hands open in your lap, palms facing upward. Visualize the unresolved story you’ve been holding. Breathe deeply and say inwardly: 'I release my need to understand. I choose to move forward.' Picture yourself walking beyond that scene into new light.
Write a one-sentence 'closing statement' for a relationship or situation that never gave you closure. Speak it out loud. Then tear the paper, flush it, or burn it (safely). Let it symbolize the end — even if it never came the way you hoped.
Marin T. “He ghosted me after five years. No explanation. I waited months for an apology or goodbye. Then I stopped waiting. I wrote my own goodbye. And it was one of the most powerful things I’ve ever done. I felt whole again.”
Closure is a choice, not a gift. You don’t have to wait to be free.