“Inside every adult is a child who just wanted to feel safe, seen, and loved.”
There’s a younger version of you who still lives within.
They flinch when voices raise. They brace when love arrives. They believe they have to earn safety.
This child is not a metaphor — they are memory made alive. Emotion that never got to finish. Truth that never felt safe enough to speak.
To heal the inner child is not to go back in time. It is to offer now what was missing then.
*I believe you.*
*You were never too much.*
*You deserved care, protection, warmth.*
When we meet that child with tenderness instead of shame, we begin to dissolve the patterns that have haunted our adulthood.
It’s not about fixing them. It’s about sitting beside them, holding their hand, and finally saying:
*You are not alone anymore.*
Sit or lie down and close your eyes. Imagine a moment from childhood when you felt hurt or afraid. Visualize your adult self arriving in that moment — calm, grounded, loving. Speak to the child version of you with compassion. Offer the words you always needed to hear. Stay with them. Let them feel your presence.
Find a photo of yourself as a child, or visualize one clearly. Place it somewhere visible today. Each time you pass by, pause and say: 'I see you. I love you. We’re healing together now.'
Camille F. “I didn’t know how much of my anxiety came from the child in me still waiting to be rescued. When I visualized myself going back and being the one who showed up, I cried so deeply. But something finally softened. I felt… safe.”
The child in you didn’t need to be stronger — they needed to be held.