“What you don’t heal, you repeat — until love shows up in your own hands.”
Some wounds don’t just linger — they loop.
You find yourself in the same argument. The same type of relationship. The same silence after speaking your truth.
It feels like bad luck. But often, it’s an old story replaying itself — hoping you’ll end it differently this time.
Patterns aren’t punishments. They’re invitations. Every time they surface, they whisper:
*Can you choose something new?*
Today is not yesterday. You are not who you were.
You have power now. Awareness. A growing trust in your own worth.
And from that place, you can interrupt the old rhythm and begin a new song.
Not out of anger. But out of love for who you’re becoming.
Sit comfortably and close your eyes. Think of a pattern that has repeated in your life — emotionally, relationally, spiritually. As you breathe, ask inwardly: 'What belief keeps recreating this?' Don’t force an answer. Just listen. End with a few deep breaths affirming: 'I am ready for something new.'
Draw a simple timeline of your life with key relationships or major events. Notice any repeating themes or emotional echoes. Highlight one — and write down a new response you will choose next time it appears.
Eli W. “I kept choosing people who made me feel invisible — just like when I was a kid. Seeing that written out hit hard. But it was also empowering. I realized I don’t need to earn love. I need to recognize it starts with me.”
You don’t have to finish the story that hurt you. You can write a new ending.