“You are not the story you were given. You are the author now.”
Some of the most painful things we carry aren’t memories.
They’re stories.
Stories that began when we were young.
Stories like: 'I have to be strong or I’ll be abandoned.'
'My feelings are too much.'
'I only matter when I’m useful.'
No one hands you these beliefs outright. You absorb them — in the silences, the punishments, the praise, the patterns.
You shape yourself around them because that’s how you learned to survive.
But you are not here just to survive.
You’re here to remember who you were before the world told you who to be.
Some of these old stories are so woven into your identity that letting go of them feels like losing part of yourself.
But what if you’re not losing anything real?
What if you’re just releasing the weight that was never yours to hold?
You don’t have to rewrite everything at once.
Just choose one story — one voice, one rule, one script — and say: *I no longer believe this defines me.*
That’s where freedom begins. Not with a new story.
But with permission to let the old one end.
Close your eyes and take three deep breaths. Bring to mind one belief about yourself that has felt heavy. As you breathe, say: 'This story helped me once. I thank it. I release it.'
Write down a story you’ve believed about yourself — something limiting or painful. Then write a new sentence underneath it, beginning with: 'What’s also true is…'
Camille F. “I didn’t realize how deeply I believed I had to earn love. This lesson didn’t fix everything, but it gave me the courage to start questioning that belief. And that felt like power.”
Some stories aren’t lies — they’re just no longer true for who you are now.