“You don’t need to understand it all to be shaped by it in beautiful ways.”
Some seasons don’t make sense while you’re living them.
They’re full of loose ends, unfinished thoughts, and days where all you can do is keep breathing.
And yet, even in the confusion — something is forming.
Something tender. Something true.
You don’t have to love the pain. But you can allow it to speak.
You don’t have to have the answers. But you can stay curious.
What is this teaching me about what matters?
What old part of me is being asked to soften, release, or rise?
Not every chapter is about clarity.
Some are about becoming more human. More honest.
More available to the life you’re still creating.
You may not be able to label what this all means — but you will not leave this season unchanged.
Let the mess be sacred.
Let the not-knowing be part of the healing.
Close your eyes and place both feet on the floor. With every inhale, say: 'I don’t need all the answers.' With every exhale, say: 'I trust meaning will find me.'
Write down something in your life that currently feels confusing or unresolved. Underneath it, write: 'Even this can shape me in loving ways.'
Owen L. “I’ve been in a season that just feels… shapeless. But this helped me stop fighting for clarity. I’m learning to let the mess just be, and trust it’s doing something I can’t yet see.”
What doesn’t make sense now may one day become your deepest wisdom.